Problem is, we are not enough Asmodian compare to Elyos, that's just a fact.
Let's not mention artefact and stuff. Elyos are capable to down a dux from 100 to 10% while Asmo can only do from 100 to 50....
No Matter what we try, the server is not balance in terms of player (54% Elyos for 46% Asmo)
Maybe the difference it's "nothing" but the fact that "bad" (I'll not talk about this leadership cause I would clearly not want this spot) leadership (mentioned by others) doesn't wanna make Asmos wanna do RvR.
The more we lose, the more tired people become (it's just logical) and they'll be like "why bother myself to go, we'll lose again"
Unfortunately this mentality doesn't help the asmo side.
Let's just hope we'll be able to do something in 2.0.....